Category: Psychology and Philosophy

I received a report that I actually turned my attention to the depths of the opponent’s chest while talking. It seems that he had a pain in his chest.

Let me tell you a little more about the practical using of it.

It is very possible that it will become painful. When you turn your attention to the depths of the other person’s chest, it means that you are in tune with the vibration of the other person’s true feelings. (So, please only go with a close relationship)
If you are sensitive, you may feel sad or angry because the other person’s emotions are transmitted realistically.
Never forget that it is not your own feelings.
For example, if the feeling of sadness is conveyed, I will analyze it as “I am sad in the back of my heart.” You don’t necessarily have to say, “You’re sad, aren’t you?”
It is important to listen to the voice of the other person’s heart.
That alone should open a hole in the opponent’s heart.
And you will not be deceived by superficial words and deeds that are not your opponent’s true feelings.
You may be able to go one step further with a relationship.

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It’s a pretty advanced skill to accurately sense the complex subtleties of people’s minds and talk to them about it in everyday life. Moreover, the human mind is complicated. Whether someone is crying or getting angry, there’s more than one reason. Therefore, there is no single correct answer. Besides, it is better to think that people basically say things that are different from what they are really think.

Humans are very troublesome creatures. . .

And in this busy modern society, there is not much room to care about people’s true feelings. Most people want to avoid the troublesome things anyway and starts to act based on “what people said”.

But at the very least, I would like to have some leeway with my family, lovers, and friends so that I can understand the feelings behind those words and the true intentions of their hearts.

For example, a young child scolded by his mother says, “I hate mom!” Complex emotions are contained in such a common child’s words. It could be “Love me more” or “I’m angry at myself for making my mom angry.” But if the mother interpret these words directly “I am hated by my child”, it causes a mess.
This is a very easy-to-understand example, but relationship between adults is similar to this isn’t it?

As I said before, there is not only one correct answer. It’s just that you don’t get distracted by the other person’s words and actions, and you just need to focus on the depths of your heart, saying, “What is your true intention?”
There is a trick to it. Bring your attention to the depths of your opponent’s chest. Then, an exchange of “ki” will be born, and a change in each other’s feelings should appear. Please try it.
*Attention! Please try only with a close relationship *

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When do people feel relieved?

It happens when you start speak to your upset friend and become confused yourself.
Even if your friend is crying in front of you, you don’t really know the reason. He can be sad, frustrated, or dissatisfied. The feelings are vague and often difficult to express in words, even for the person himself. However, if you can accurately understand his feelings, he must say, “Yes! That’s right! Can you see?!”
People feel relieved when they are understood. Moreover, the most pleasant thing, if someone understands turmoil in their heart which cannot be expressed even by themselves. It it happens to you, you will fill friendliness to the other person of course. At the same time, “Qi” flows in each other’s bodies and between the two. This is the basis of “Relief”.

The human mind is very delicate and complicated. The world of “Qi” is the same. Even if ask someone who is frustrated and crying, “You’re sad, aren’t you?”, “Qi” will not move.
From the point of view of therapy, “relief” begins when “Qi” starts to flow, when the client’s physical and mental needs are accurately found out. It’s like key will never open a door unless the key fits perfectly into the keyhole.
At our clinic, we have thousands of flower photos and more than 50 types of aroma oil blends. We firstly identify the needs of each client’s mind and body, and provide the most suitable therapy combining the most appropriate flower photo, aroma oil, body treatment, etc. By using Dr. Motomiya’s original technique FBP, it is possible to make a precise diagnosis of “Qi”.
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When we show flower photos based on the diagnosis of “Qi” to our clients, they often say “Oh, this is it!” and feel deeply relieved. We have photo stock in our clinic.

Or see the website of “Kitorikasan”. 

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