Category: Love

Communication is sending and receiving, listening and understanding people’s stories, speaking and telling what you want to say. This ability is very important in life because we are building relationships with playing such kind of catch ball. Receiving ability is important and quite difficult. If the desire to express oneself and be understood too strong, receiving ability and diligence to understand the other person decrease.
Have you ever experienced in barren communication when you are talking to the other person only about you want to talk, your opponent is talking to you only about he wants to talk and both of you couldn’t understand each other?

Thus, let’s divide relationship in two parts, namely you and the people around you like family, lovers, friends, business associates, etc.
The energy of catch ball of love is transmitted not only by conversation, but also without any words for long distances. The closer the relationship is, the greater the energy of love is produced.
In this case, receiving ability will be the key. But most people are not good at catching love. Even though 100 love balls are thrown from their family, lover, and friends, they can’t catch any of them, just get angry at the other person and complain about absence of love. But in reality, the overflowing love is in front of them, but they missing everything … Don’t you think that it’s too wasteful?

And another way to divide relationship is self vs. self. It is a catch ball between person himself, sending love to himself and receiving it.
In psychology there is used the term “self-acceptance,” it is a pretty difficult problem.
To give love to yourself and receive it, what does it actually mean?

Recently, “self-acceptance” is expressed in TV commercials by the words “this is all right”. Young people might have an opportunity to think about it and notice something after watching this commercial. The order is to know, to notice, and to think. Even because of such plain things “Qi” moves and healing begins. However, it’s to necessary to make healing power work up to unconscious level for reducing waste of energy in relationship.

At our hospital, we tried essential oils with fragrance to improve the ability to accept love. The effect was better than we had expected. We received a lot of feedback from people, they said than they became gentle and calm, their relationships improved just smelling this fragrance and treating it with a blended oil we made.
If you can feel loved by others, it will lead to self-acceptance. You will able to say “this is all right” to yourself being loved by people around you.
And this is the fastest way to improve the healing power!

Okino

I would like to start talking about healing power, which is closely related to the power to receive “shin-qi” and the power to receive love.
“Love” is such a grand theme that I would like to write about it in several parts.

As I said last time, “shin-qi” is the energy needed to live. People get “shin-qi” from the blessings of nature, such as the sun, the sea, the mountains, trees and flowers, fresh food. Anyone has ever felt this natural energy even if he doesn’t know the word “shin-qi”.

On the other hand, “love” is the most difficult and the most important thing for human beings.
Everyone needs “love” from birth. “Love” can make people happy or mad.
In that sense, its good or bad power is huge.
Even if you are in the magnificent nature full of “shin-qi” , but you can’t feel the love of the others, you’re not happy at all. Furthermore, it can be said that
modern people are suffering from “love deficiency”, being always unfulfilled and always hungry for love. One has no confidence in himself because he doesn’t have confidence to be loved.

First, a common parent-child problem is when a child complains that he is not accepted or loved by the parent. In fact, children complain about their parents because of their desire to be loved more.
Here I would like to discuss about the energy of love between parents and children, regardless of whether or not the parent has a problem. Love definitely exists between parents and children, love energy goes through them.
The only problem is that they are awkward with playing catch of love when every throw is a wild pitch and every catch is an error. In the worst case, you can’t even see the ball, so participants are just getting dissatisfied with each other.

This is not just between parents and children. I’m doing exactly the same thing between spouses, lovers, friends, and the person himself.

So the best way is to stop playing catch, because it’s just waste of energy.

To be continued…

Okino