Love and Healing Power part2

Communication is sending and receiving, listening and understanding people’s stories, speaking and telling what you want to say. This ability is very important in life because we are building relationships with playing such kind of catch ball. Receiving ability is important and quite difficult. If the desire to express oneself and be understood too strong, receiving ability and diligence to understand the other person decrease.
Have you ever experienced in barren communication when you are talking to the other person only about you want to talk, your opponent is talking to you only about he wants to talk and both of you couldn’t understand each other?

Thus, let’s divide relationship in two parts, namely you and the people around you like family, lovers, friends, business associates, etc.
The energy of catch ball of love is transmitted not only by conversation, but also without any words for long distances. The closer the relationship is, the greater the energy of love is produced.
In this case, receiving ability will be the key. But most people are not good at catching love. Even though 100 love balls are thrown from their family, lover, and friends, they can’t catch any of them, just get angry at the other person and complain about absence of love. But in reality, the overflowing love is in front of them, but they missing everything … Don’t you think that it’s too wasteful?

And another way to divide relationship is self vs. self. It is a catch ball between person himself, sending love to himself and receiving it.
In psychology there is used the term “self-acceptance,” it is a pretty difficult problem.
To give love to yourself and receive it, what does it actually mean?

Recently, “self-acceptance” is expressed in TV commercials by the words “this is all right”. Young people might have an opportunity to think about it and notice something after watching this commercial. The order is to know, to notice, and to think. Even because of such plain things “Qi” moves and healing begins. However, it’s to necessary to make healing power work up to unconscious level for reducing waste of energy in relationship.

At our hospital, we tried essential oils with fragrance to improve the ability to accept love. The effect was better than we had expected. We received a lot of feedback from people, they said than they became gentle and calm, their relationships improved just smelling this fragrance and treating it with a blended oil we made.
If you can feel loved by others, it will lead to self-acceptance. You will able to say “this is all right” to yourself being loved by people around you.
And this is the fastest way to improve the healing power!

Okino