Please Understand Me! Daily Life Edition

It’s a pretty advanced skill to accurately sense the complex subtleties of people’s minds and talk to them about it in everyday life. Moreover, the human mind is complicated. Whether someone is crying or getting angry, there’s more than one reason. Therefore, there is no single correct answer. Besides, it is better to think that people basically say things that are different from what they are really think.

Humans are very troublesome creatures. . .

And in this busy modern society, there is not much room to care about people’s true feelings. Most people want to avoid the troublesome things anyway and starts to act based on “what people said”.

But at the very least, I would like to have some leeway with my family, lovers, and friends so that I can understand the feelings behind those words and the true intentions of their hearts.

For example, a young child scolded by his mother says, “I hate mom!” Complex emotions are contained in such a common child’s words. It could be “Love me more” or “I’m angry at myself for making my mom angry.” But if the mother interpret these words directly “I am hated by my child”, it causes a mess.
This is a very easy-to-understand example, but relationship between adults is similar to this isn’t it?

As I said before, there is not only one correct answer. It’s just that you don’t get distracted by the other person’s words and actions, and you just need to focus on the depths of your heart, saying, “What is your true intention?”
There is a trick to it. Bring your attention to the depths of your opponent’s chest. Then, an exchange of “ki” will be born, and a change in each other’s feelings should appear. Please try it.
*Attention! Please try only with a close relationship *

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